Ekta | wisdomekta

Dear Söhne (Sons in German), Winning is an over-celebrated phenomenon socially projected as an essential factor directly attached to emotions and overall happiness index. And it may be true also. However, being happy with others winning is another happiness I wish you guys to feel and develop in your lifestyle. As you grow, you shall realise that we all thrive in winners' situations as it showcases the prospects of self-progress and social- promotion. In this race of self-winning and marketing self-promotion, we sometimes lose the path of self-worth and wrongly begin to perceive winning with self-worth. Moreover, to remain realistic and practical, you must develop empathy. Thus, you must understand and imbibe the trait/character of praising others for their success and respecting others’ journey of failure. Mind it, for me, the definition of praising others is not merely pressing the “like” button on Facebook or double-clicking posts on Instagram…it is about the natu...

Beste zonen ( Dear Sons in Dutch),      I am preparing you to be brave and face the worldly challenge with patience in heart. But the experiences are different for everyone, and I also understand you will face your set of challenges in life. During those times, I urge you to be brave enough to seek help without hesitation.      Recently, while waiting for a flight at Mumbai airport, I overheard a loud conversation that automatically reached my ears. The conversation went like this- ….. Person A- “My sister never help me.” Person B- “Why, what happened…” Person A - “Ärey I helped her so much as soon as she asked me, but she was not there for me when I required.” Person B- “But did you even bother to ask her or seek help by direct communication” Person A- “Well, she should have understood; why do I need to ask her. She is my family and must know what I need then.” …..      I kept thinking about this conversation on my flight, realising...

  Disclaimer- This post is part of trait-series-for-kids which I began to search and write for my kids in 2019. With this series of blog posts containing knowledge-slash-experience, I pray from the almighty that our kids have a simple but magical life. The contents of the series are the outcome of a rigorous search, several readings and first-hand experiences, and self-reflection. Nae Salanghaneun Adeul , (In Korean meaning My dear Sons)      As you grow, there shall be extents in life when you might feel glued. The things around, passing scenarios, existing dilemmas, and even the behaviour of loved ones might not be making any sense to you. Your dreams may be looking distant, the purpose for the moment lost and you may start wondering about the ultimate game of life. The questions about your existence start challenging your efforts and actions. But in these times, you must conserve the highest of hope and faith that some transformation is near. It is because the c...