Self story 2024

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The death is REAL!

2024 marked the departure of many known souls from this world, reminding me of the fragility of life. Their untimely departure has put the core of my being in freeze. Each untimely loss has cast a shadow over my spirit, leaving me in a state of reflection and introspection.

In such times, I pacified myself with the dialogue from “Anand” Movie “Babumoshai, zindagi badi honi chahiye, lambi nahi”. Embracing the moments that matter can genuinely make all the difference.

This is the motto I am embracing as I move into another year. This reality check has disconnected my scorpion soul on some deeper level from this world. It seems I have developed a sensitivity and respect for the people in my life at a deeper level. The “plastic” aspects of career, fame, profit, and happiness have revealed their true meaning to me.

No, it is not that I have attained nirvana! It is simply the heart speaking, and the mind has finally embraced these heartfelt truths that it once struggled to accept.

Here I am listing ten innermost thoughts that I frequently observe, especially during happy and sad times.

1. Live in the present but keep a bird's eye view of any situation.

2. Silence is golden

3. Take a moment to pause in life.

4. People constantly preach to improve. But we must be conscious of what to follow and what to ignore so to preserve our originality

5. Pressuring others is not the key to building relationships. Let there be enough air to breathe in any relationship.

6. Forgiveness is challenging, but it is essential for self-growth

7. Find peace within ourselves

8. And most importantly, we must accept ourselves.

9. Be genuine in life. Show respect to others. Stay humble. Embrace normalcy. Keep things simple.

10. It is most important to be alive. Don’t mimic or copy others, and have enough strength to give yourself tough love.


Happy New Year dear Reader!

Share your insights from this past year and assist me in setting some exciting challenges or goals for 2025.

Comments

  1. PriyankaDecember 28, 2024 at 7:58 AM

    Very well expressed from the heart...

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  2. Capt SangwanDecember 28, 2024 at 8:02 AM

    hi Ekta, very nice introspection and lessons learnt purely speaking, your heart. These are the life lessons, which makes a person humble and grounded.
    I remember few words of my school principal, who said जो जड़ों से जुड़ा है वही तो बढ़ा है।
    All the best and I pray you get more tough time more challenges, more difficult situations in the coming year because I know now you have learnt to surf over all the low and high tides. Happy New Year.

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    1. Ekta | wisdomektaDecember 28, 2024 at 8:07 AM

      Thank you so much for your kind words, sir! I truly believe that life is a journey meant to be fully embraced while we’re here.

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  3. AnonymousDecember 28, 2024 at 9:53 AM

    Best wishes for your continued journey of living a fulfilling life!

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  4. AnonymousDecember 28, 2024 at 11:19 AM

    Rightly said Ekta.. Embracing life’s beauty and not judging others can indeed lead to a positive and compassionate outlook.
    Misha

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    1. Ekta | wisdomektaDecember 28, 2024 at 11:57 AM

      The basic truth. We read it. But forget! I hope you keep checking the blog for new posts

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  5. AnonymousDecember 28, 2024 at 11:40 AM

    Best wishes Ekta!! very deep thought you have shared!!

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  6. AnonymousDecember 28, 2024 at 1:35 PM

    Liked the insightful-deep, yet well summarized post.
    Life learnings through your POV have been so very beautifully put out.
    Also, cute cover photo:)

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  7. ShardaDecember 28, 2024 at 1:38 PM

    Best wishes dear…every moment is special n living it with hope n determination is a real kick..😊

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  8. Jaya LaunganiDecember 28, 2024 at 11:32 PM

    Amazingly and simply put forth! I pray that Universe gives you strength for true and tough self love! 🤗🤗

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  9. AnonymousDecember 31, 2024 at 10:42 AM

    Well thought

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