Take care! Reset!!(Advice to my kids)
Disclaimer- This post is part of the trait-series-for-kids, which I began to search and write for my kids in 2019. With this series of blog posts containing knowledge-slash-experience, I pray from the almighty that our kids have a simple and magical life. The contents of the series are the outcome of some research, readings, first-hand experiences, and self-reflection.
Dear Söhne (Sons in German),
Life is wonderfully simple, and yet sometimes we make it a bit more complex than it needs to be!
I recently had an intense experience where I fainted. It felt like my world was spinning, followed by a wave of numbness and some intense vomiting. Throughout it all, my mind was stubbornly focused on the commitment I had made for the day, even though my body was clearly telling me to slow down. It might seem easy for you to say, "Mumma, you should rest!" but I tangled myself up with the importance of my promises.
That experience encouraged me to hit the reset button on my goals and the path I was following. It's like a big splash of fresh water that made me reconsider why I am here in the first place! This journey of discovering my existence has led me to reflect on my beliefs, the importance of keeping the promises, the cost associated with it and how they align with my experiences.
As of this date, I can confirm one thing: the traps of expectations, desires, and comparisons can make things complicated. When I see you both, I keep remembering the clarity of my childhood, and that simplicity brings me joy. Back then, life was just pure fun without added complexities! As we grow, we encounter a wild mix of emotions that teach us valuable lessons.
So, let's take a cue from nature! Be like a playful squirrel on the tree, embracing each moment and enjoying the beauty of the world around you. Worrying less and appreciating more will make our journey so much brighter. It is easier said rather than done, but a little reset in our attitude and mindset can work wonders.
We often find ourselves acting in the name of freedom and self-expression, but let's remember to pause and reflect on the real meaning behind our actions. It’s easy to take a loved one’s presence for granted or the little blessings ignored in life, but when we connect with ourselves, we become more attuned to what truly matters.
Life stays lovely and simple when we take care of our Food, Sleep, and Exercise! Think of your body as the golden ticket that opens doors to incredible experiences. Remember, a healthy body is the key to unlocking all the magical possibilities life has to offer!
When we’re young, our energy feels limitless! As we age, nurturing this energy through a healthy lifestyle and disciplined life keeps it alive and thriving.
I bless you with all the health in this world and hope that you shine in your world.
Sending you all my love,
Yours, Mutter (Mother in German)
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Trait no 9 – RESET!!
Mantra No. 9- For a joyful and fulfilling life, “reset” is the secret!
Quote from the brilliant Oscar Wilde: "To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." Let's embrace that joy!
