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And soon Local Trains vanished (My Old Soul Twinkle series)

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Disclaimer: This new series, “My Old-soul Twinkle,” is my heartfelt attempt to capture the endless stream of thoughts racing through my mind. At times, these musings may seem confusing—or even a little "out there"—but I genuinely welcome your counterpoints and insights. Dive in and share your thoughts! While recently travelling inside Mumbai ( an attempt to make friends with Mumbai ), I saw the contrast between local trains and metros . While local trains represent the old speed of Mumbai—the lifeline of the city—the metros, with their sleek elegance and silence, are quietly becoming part of Mumbaikars ' journeys, trying to vibe along with the city's pulse. And the day is not far, like the days of the post office, when the local trains soon vanished from the geography of Mumbai for the better!! My life has seen the “gone” of many things like black & white TVs, the vibrant playgrounds, the genuine smiles, the neighborhood chitchat, mothers’ genuine love and care,...

Birth-day revelations 2025- New year resolution 2026

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  Compromise is a heavy term. It embodies the delicate balance of negotiating differing perspectives, where both sides willingly make sacrifices to reach a mutual agreement. In my life, on one side stand my past beliefs & experiences and on the other side are the recent scenarios. Past beliefs are accompanied by fear of the future and presumed warnings, while current ones pose questions about unpredictable changes with no immediate answers. The weight of the past and present has profoundly unsettled me, sending ripples through my very core. Nothing major has happened; it's about observing the little things. So, my life is at a point where many illusionary paths and options seem to appear, but the clear one is nowhere to be seen. Where childhood beliefs and long-held concepts are being challenged by my inner self, and sometimes I find them unfounded or without solid ground. Essentially, it’s a disorienting experience that has left me feeling lost and adrift, struggling with a ...

Book Review- Before We say Goodbye by Toshikazu Kawaguchi

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  The 4th novel in the series, Before the Coffee Gets Cold, left me with a sense of hope and a magical experience.  (For reference: 1st - Before Coffee Gets Cold , 2nd- Tales from Cafe , 3rd-  Before your memory fades ) The regulars at CafĂ© Funiculi Funicula ( and regular readers ) are familiar with its whimsical ability to take them on a journey into the past—along with the strict rules involved, including that each traveller must return to the present before their coffee gets cold. This collection also features four remarkable stories of grief, closure, pain, and life: The Husband with Something Important Left to Say, The Woman Who Couldn’t Bid Her Dog Farewell, The Woman Who Couldn’t Answer a Proposal, and The Daughter Who Drove Her Father Away. Again, a heartwarming read that can be devoured in one day or savoured chapter by chapter. This saga has an interesting ending!! Quotes- “It is up to each individual to decide how they feel about the words of others and what a...

Wild horse effect - Story of a day

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  On a thrilling, cloudy morning in Mumbai, the skies opened up with heavy rains, declaring it a perfect “rainy-day” at school. Since the school was closed and the office was open, we had to make a decision. Due to our prior commitment, we decided to leave the kids at home with clear instructions, a mobile phone, and plenty of food. We felt confident they would use this vacant-home feeling with little adventure at home! However, as the day progressed, the rain underwent a drastic change, and there were alerts for flooding. And on top of this, the phone calls to home went unanswered. My heart sank . After the fifth call went unanswered, I began my worry-filled journey back home. I asked my neighbour to check in, and she also rang the doorbell, but no one answered. My taxi driver was hesitant to take the main road due to severe waterlogging and dropped me about 2 km away from home. I was in such a state of panic that I didn’t even think about the potholes or bumpy roads. I just went...

Book Review- Before Your Memory Fades by Toshikazu Kawaguchi

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Next in the “ Before Coffee Gets Cold ” series, this is the third read after “ Tales from the cafe ”, and this blog post is the review of the book titled “Before Your Memory Fades.” Unlike the first two books of the series, which took place at CafĂ© Funiculi Funicula in Tokyo, we now meet Nagare and Kazu, along with her adorable seven-year-old daughter Sachi, at CafĂ© Donna Donna in Hakodate. Nagare’s mom, Yukari, who owns and manages the cafĂ©, is away traveling, so Nagare and Kazu are stepping in to take care of things. The rules of time travel stay the same—nothing can change the present, and the traveler must return before their coffee cools. The chair is only available when the ghostly elderly gentleman occupant leaves his seat temporarily. Four new customers reach the cafe, each eager to try out the cafe's time-travelling offer. Alongside some familiar faces from Toshikazu Kawaguchi’s earlier novels, we meet a daughter who couldn’t say ‘You’re an idiot’ (my favourite), a comedia...

Book review- Tales from the Cafe by Toshikazu Kawaguchi

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This is the second review of the second book in the series “ Before the Coffee Gets Cold ” In “Tales from the Cafe,” the setting remains consistent. The cafe Funiculi Funicula features a special chair that can transport a seeker on a journey into the past or future, as long as the rules are followed to ensure they return to the present before the coffee gets cold. The characters have grown and developed from the previous book. The book has four tales , viz., the man who goes back to see his best friend who died 22 years ago; the son who was unable to attend his own mother’s funeral; the man who travelled to see the girl he could not marry; and my favourite, the old detective who never gave his wife that gift. Reading the cafĂ©’s rules in each story became quite repetitive, but it didn’t matter; it actually made me feel like one of the regular customers at the cafe. The stories are captivating, especially when we understand the various reasons for revisiting the past or future. The book...

Book Review- Dare to Lead by Brené Brown

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  First, let me share my reflections on the book. It is a great read because it does a good job of explaining how being vulnerable allows people to "take off their armour" and have conversations with real meaning and impact. Being a leader does not mean being “ correct, always ”. Being vulnerable creates empathy among peers, which opens the door to trust-building —the foundation for many strong relationships to start, whether professional or personal. The book actually suggests that being a leader is less about skill and more about how a person is! It is a great book to read in general, but especially for those budding leaders and humans-in-making. Coming to the book review. Dare to Lead primarily discusses daring leadership in a culture defined by scarcity, fear, and uncertainty, which requires building courage skills that are uniquely human. It focuses on developing the hearts and minds of leaders. Leaders are individuals who hold themselves accountable for recognizing po...